Rachael is 28 years old. She first came to the Cupboard when she was barely 18 – and already a single mother. Both she and her boyfriend had grown up in poverty. They have experienced homelessness, food insecurity and temporary shelter-living. He now works full-time at a local fast food restaurant and odd jobs when he can find them. She use to work as a housekeeper at a local motel, but the hours were sporadic and seasonal. They also have another child–a toddler with disabilities. There is little, if any family support. They are trying to get their life on track but are discouraged. After an almost 4 year wait, they finally have subsidized housing. They can barely pay their rent but the food we share helps them make it through each month.
Marjorie is a spry 82-year old. However, her monthly Social Security check and her middle-age son’s meager wages are the only income for them and two young teen-age grandsons. They moved in with her soon after her daughter-in-law died in March after a long battle with cancer. Her son and his late wife had no life insurance. Their savings disappeared and some outstanding bills have yet to be paid. The school counselor is doing her best to be supportive of the boys who are still grieving the loss of their mother and struggling with the new “normal.” With our help, Marjorie is doing her best to provide them with a home, love and enough food to satisfy those teen-age appetites.
A blended family with a teenage son and a 5 year old live in a small basement apartment of a relative for the time being. After surviving two deployments to Iraq, Leon’s marriage fell apart. He is still receiving treatment for PTSD. He receives a military benefit but is still unable to work. His girlfriend and her young daughter also share the space. She receives food stamps. She would like to look for work but is uneasy about leaving her five-year old with Leon during the summer. Her daughter is due to start kindergarten this September when she hopes to seek employment.
Imagine the desperation of a father who schemes to bring his frightened family to the border of his war-torn country. His three children and partially disabled wife have lived in constant fear. He stays behind to hide their disappearance for as long as possible. The mother and children survive the long and arduous journey through refugee detention camps and eventual arrival in Maine. They seek and are granted legal “Asylum” status. There is still no word about the father’s safety or survival. The family is grateful for the assistance they receive from compassionate friends, churches and local government, but needs additional help to survive. Imagine living in a climate that is entirely different from their sub-tropical origins and still fearful of their strange new surroundings. They strive for a better life. We do our best to provide them with food to lessen their fear of hunger.
Carla hasn’t been here for awhile. Things were going better for her and her 2 daughters. Now they are not. She still works, but only on an “as needed” basis. Her employer doesn’t call her often enough. She will be having knee surgery next month which will prevent her from working at all during her six-week recovery period. Both girls will be returning to school before long and Carla struggles to provide them with the basics–let alone the “extras” that middle-school girls would like to have. The food she chooses from our Cupboard helps her keep them healthy. We share the contacts we have with other sources for clothing and school supplies.
Stanley never married and has just turned 61 years of age. He has worked all his life. He has a long list of various jobs he’d held over the years. He lived modestly and put away some funds regularly towards his anticipated retirement. There would be no company pensions, but between his Social Security and his savings, he was confident that he would be able to continue to live independently and maybe enjoy a few of the perks of life in a few years. This past March, Stanley was diagnosed with leukemia and his dreams seem farther away than he had hoped. Technically, his income is $120 over his eligibility to come to the Cupboard, but his current medications put him well below the poverty line. We could not–and did not turn him away.
Jamie is motivated to finish school and graduate. So is her younger sister, Britta. We consider them “short-timers” here at the Cupboard. They seem much older than their dates of birth indicate. Both have part-time jobs and share a room in off -campus housing near the local community college. They have seen the devastation that drugs and alcohol can do to a family and are determined to have a better life. Their share of the rent for the apartment amounts to half of their current income. We offer them protein, vegetables, fruit and much more. We also applaud their goals and aspirations.